Process of Adoption

Well, I have been reading several blogs and one that I found looked at the process of adoption as her own pregnancy...so that's how we are going to look at it as well.  Here is what she had said...

 First trimester is the Home Study process
Second trimester is the approval of the home study to the time we get picked by a birth mother
Third trimester is the part of the journey from the matched to the close of the adoption

 So...we have just started this journey so we are in the 1st trimester...

 Looking forward to the rest of the journey!!!

 Thank you for the prayers of support.  Here is what we are praying for...

 Smooth, quick, and finances come through! Will you help us and pray with us on these? We would greatly appreciate it.

 <3 Steve and Chris

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